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What are my other children going to think if I place my baby for adoption?
Posted by: Steve Kirsh
January 20, 2012
Recently I received the following email from an expectant mother:
"I am 4 months pregnant and was thinking about adoption. The problem is I have a 7 yr old and he is very excited he is going to be a big brother. So how do I know if adoption is right when it affects the life of my other child as well? Thanks for the help."
Here is how I responded:
